Another Personal Follow-Up

For those of you visiting this website who are only interested in hot sauces, Scoville Units or buffalo wings, feel free to skip this post.

For everyone else, here's a follow-up message to something I posted back in November.

If we're friends in "real life" or on Facebook, many of you already know the things I've been dealing with the past few months: divorce, love, heartbreak, desperation, confusion, moving away from my old job and the adjustment to a new one.

I'm not writing any of this to garner sympathy, but just to let you where I'm at. Lots of you reading this have gone through similar circumstances so you know exactly what I've been through.

My priorities have changed. It's incredibly difficult to put my whole heart and mind into writing about spicy foods. I just can't do it for the time being.

What do I have in front of me? There's a mountain of unanswered e-mail, a few large boxes of products to review, and several ideas for blog articles and Weekly Firecasts. There are also a few side projects I've yet to finish for friends in the fiery foods and BBQ communities.

I will get to that all; I promise to do my best to see that just about everything is answered, covered and accounted for. I'll still try to create an occasional post or review just to tide everyone over, but don't expect daily updates until sometime after the New Year.

Meanwhile things are looking up for me. I don't know if many of you are the believing kind, but God is doing phenomenal things in my heart. Sometimes it takes hitting rock bottom to realize that He will always be there to offer a helping hand to lift you up and comfort you. Christ has really given me unbelievable direction and clarity. Now the things that really matter are God, my two sons, and family and friends. Nothing else.

I want to thank you all for the well wishes, the phone calls, the words of encouragement and the prayers for me and my boys. My friends, especially those in the hot sauce and BBQ world, are the nicest people on earth. I am not joking. I've cried many times in amazement and have thanked the Lord for all the generosity you guys have provided. I love you all and I'll come back stronger than ever through God's grace.

One last thing: if any of YOU need anything from me, do not hesitate to ask. Whether it's a prayer, or you just need someone to talk or vent to, I will always be here for you. My contact info is at the bottom of the right sidebar.





     Comments

Comment FIREHEAD THOMAS
2010-12-14 12:12:53
Hang in there my fiery friend!
Comment jasmine
2010-12-14 12:19:33
that was really sweet robert and FYI i am in the process of creating some sort of group rate and what not for the hotel that i work for so i can get back to you about the fiery food show my boss was talking about if you decide to come and can get a certain amount of rooms booked we can comp you a night or something IDK its still in the works...Hang in there and you are a wonderful person. I hope that get through this I have something that my cousin once told me when I was going through my mess of a life..
" Life is like a roller coaster. Once you start there is nothing you can do to make it stop. You can cover your eyes and wish it was over. You can grab the person next to you and cling on to them for dear life. You can unstrap yourself and jump off sooner than you should. Or you can THROW YOUR ARMS UP IN THE AIR AND SCREAM AT THE TOP OF YOUR LUNGS AND ENJOY THE THRILL OF IT ALL!!!

Comment SuckleBusters
2010-12-14 12:26:46
Hi there Scott -

I don't know all about the details here, but one thing is for sure -> God is bigger than those details. Sounds like you are on the right track, God Bless and Merry Christmas.
Comment David
2010-12-14 13:32:35
Hello Scott,
Best wishes as you get through all this! Happy Holidays, and God Bless!
Comment "Atomic Eh?" Ammond Crawford
2010-12-14 15:14:24
Thanks for sharing. I have enjoyed reading your articles and hope to do so in the near future. I do reviews probably only because your website has inspired me to also do so...for that I thank you. Life is up and down (I know it well) but being that your a Christian then you know that this will just last for a season and then things will change yet again. Persevere....Without preaching or telling you what you already know, again persevere. Proverbs 16:3 Check it out!
Comment Buddah
2010-12-14 17:25:45
Scott,

If you ever need to vent or just talk about things, then I am here for you. Just remember when things are bad, they can always be worse. I remember a blind associate once told me that he considers himself fortunate because he had a chance to see when he was young, but most of all he isn't deaf, missing limbs, or without voice. He has his health and surrounded by good people. Why worry about being blind, life can always be a lot worse. So if you are feeling down,think about how hard life could be. Keep your head up buddy.
Comment Butch Taylor
2010-12-14 17:31:49
Hang in there Scott, it sounds like you are on the right path. You will be a stronger man because of what your going through, trust in God and stand strong!
Comment Ryan Graub
2010-12-14 19:32:09
I'm sorry to hear this news. I am sure you can make it through. You have my support. You can message or email me anytime.
Comment Tom Webster
2010-12-15 02:09:50
It takes a big man to open up to the world at large but it takes an even bigger man to put everything else aside and focus on what matters.

Tough times are sent to try us but keep that focus and you will you come through the other side of this stronger than ever.

Peace
Comment John Dilley
2010-12-15 04:23:04
Scott, me and Maggie continue to keep good thougts. Sounds like a lot of self-reflection is going on. This is a good thing. It's kind of amazing how someone can rewrite themselves when they take time out and actually read their own 'book'. If you need anything dude, all you need do is ask.
Comment Ol' Benito
2010-12-15 05:17:26
Hey Scott,
Hang in there. I too have dealt with a lot in the past couple of years. I think when we rely mainly on our own resiliency we are pleasantly surprised at how strong we really are. You are a strong person who clearly has his priorities in order. Stay well. Happy Holidays. - ol' Benito
Comment Eddie
2010-12-17 15:12:33
Scott,

God bless you brother! Like you said I have had my bottom time too. After the passing of my Mother, Father and Grandmother all with in a 2 year time frame only to top it off with my divorce.

Hang in there life is worth every minute good and bad. Hot Sauce just adds a little spice!

God Bless


Comment thakswet
2010-12-17 17:16:35
awaiting your return; I'm sure it will be triumphant!
Comment John
2010-12-18 14:23:10
take your time Scott - make sure you're OK before you worry about the blog - but we are waiting for your return!
Comment jim campbell
2010-12-19 18:38:49
Merry CHRISTmas to you and yours Scott!
Comment parker394
2010-12-20 00:54:29
Merry Christmas Scott.
Comment Jonathan Passow
2010-12-20 12:00:39
Glad things are looking up!!!!
Comment Butch Taylor
2010-12-21 19:43:37
Merry Christmas Scott! If you need anything give me a call, I have been through it too. (my ph # is on fb)
Comment Jim at HotSauceAddicts.com
2010-12-22 20:22:13
You're absolutely right, Scott. The BBQ and Hot Sauce communities have the nicest people in the world and we will be with you every step of the way. Do things on your own terms and at your own pace. Things will continue to turn and better days are ahead! We promise!
Comment Dave
2010-12-23 09:30:15
While I'm merely a daily lurker to your sight it has been a great escape for me when I needed it during my daily routine. I am glad to hear things are going better and I want you to know my thoughts and prayers are with. Hang in there, I believe your finest hour is yet to come. Merry Christmas Scott!
Comment Bo
2010-12-30 18:53:05
God be with you, Scott. You and your boys are in my thoughts and prayers.

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